Life > Love > Life

A relationships are like special plants. you need to give your constant attention, water them and take good care .This is how they bloom but sadly we learn everything the hard way and re-learn in harder ways thats human nature!As long as we learn from our mistakes, we are great and doing good. but we dont usually and we always need a jolt it constantly.Not everyone are born perfect.Nothing is perfect neither do anything.You are not perfect and also I'm not perfect. Its better not to expect perfection in life or with someone.Perfection in life doesn't keep your life stable for sure it will have its up's and down's.
But yeah, the worst thing we do is take the love we get for granted and expect for better.Why not we see in different aspect or view ,like someone said " relationships are like special plants. you need to give your constant attention, water them and take good care only then will they bloom".
Love blooms and that's how the relationship starts isn't it ? :) So the natural thing would be to take care of the bloomed love so that it doesn't wither like a plant.Example ,take Mother Earth for granted and our future generations won't have existential dilemmas like this anymore..!!Yeah , I got what I'm trying to say here! What I meant is that not falling down as in not taking people for granted .Its a thin line that divides the way we treat people and walking on that line is tough also . But what I feel if we do learn in some other ways . Subconsciously, our past mistakes do effect our current behaviour ,I think I have understood light ( to some extent and will not go back to darkness now ). Yeah its not easy to keep up with one thing unless knowing it is somewhere wrong to take things for granted. That is wrong cannot be pardoned. But then there are others who do not realise that the short coming lies in the way they behave and seeing things in their perspective and keep seeking reasurances for their behaviour or blaming others and hence keep repeating the same damn mistakes.
I surely believe that we cannot learn to walk without falling and  I think we should all be encouraged to learn and do things ourselves by not being afraid to "fail" because there is no real failure as long as we learn.Everything in life is first time and its still a learning curve.No one is perfect and everything is still new in its own ways.We are not smart but we tend to be smart more to the cleverer.
But the question always remain the same do we need that wake-up call unless something hits us badly and never know we always take things and people for granted .
Wow! we need to realise everything around us and learn as we go on the path of the life.There are so much to learning and we are still learning the life, It never ends and will not end.Life is full of challenges and adventures..Look at love its amazing depends how its appreciated.Love with passion and love with adventures.Love is always the same , feel love with the loved one and live life with the special love in our heart.Life needs love and love needs life.Without these two there is no meaing of life or love.Understanding is the most important thing in love and also life.Once its there everything will fall at its places and love never fails when you need it.Love your life.Life is short , try living within it for the fullest with happiness and love.

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