Stupid Decision of Suicide

I have a friend on twitter that is a doctor and comes across these kinds of suicidal cases. I was thinking what the hell is wrong with these human who do not even value the life which took a mother a long 8 months to bring you into this world. You just wasted her sacrifices and the time bringing you up in life.
My friend’s brother commits suicide just because for a love that was a fake. The person he loved just dumbs him one day and he could not take it and ended his life. He was young and earns quite well. Even this educated idiot could do a silly action to end his life in a short span of time. Didn’t he realize there are other loved ones around him who have been all the while there when he needs them? His eyes were blinded from his true loved ones and seek for the fake one. This was not a lesson for the woman who left him but for his parents indeed.
God brought us to this world and gave us this life to live to the fullest. We should be appreciating every moments that we live. But I feel sorry for those who try to end their lives in the name of “suicide”.
But this has becoming a trend among the youths when the road comes to an end.
Why is this becoming too common? 
Stresses and humiliation are not really as I would say are the main causes of this suicidal. 
The majority are Indians, why so? Indians as in general not specifying which country as the highest value.Sadly I have to admit this as I’m an Indian too. 


Movies also play a big role in this influence of suicidal. Parents are not aware or not considered about their children. Seeing these children ending their life easily really scares me off. Life is easy for them as they do not understand how to live a life. They need guidance and awareness to get their life's right. Where are the parents and what are they doing ?
Sometimes right parenting is needed, added with some spiritualism should get these on the right track. This would not lead them on the wrong path. 
How many are guided into spiritualism? Do parents also follow? These children had to be taught the reasoning to be in this world.
There might be a repeated counseling given but it does not provide a proper result. More are failing to realize the worth of a life. Numbers are rising and awareness are not reaching on time. Something is lacking somewhere or hidden invisibly.
I have not emphasized what could be the key factor of these suicidal. It could be anything from exam pressuring from parents comparing other children to their own, love failure, humiliation or embarrassment,mentally ill or more others that just leads to this one ending.
Is there a better way to get the awareness to reach them before its too late for anything. We have to make them think for themselves positively. The bad decisions could be avoided if they could just think for a second.
What is the solution?

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